Sex will always provide multiple options to enjoy it; however, there are some #sinrecato practices that remain a taboo for men and women, such as, for example, double penetration.
This sexual practice consists of penetrating more than one orifice of a person’s body at the same time (vagina, mouth or anus). This penetration can be done with sex toys, the penis, tongue or fingers.
And although it seems like a practice only for two or three people, it can also be done alone with the help of lubricant, a dildo and an anal plug. Double penetration is a very common erotic practice in adult movies, and a fantasy for many couples.
This doesn’t mean that you should try it just because you saw it in a video, the ideal thing is that both of you want it and are prepared to enjoy it. Sexologists recommend reaching a high level of arousal with foreplay such as oral sex and self-exploration.
There are many ways to experience double penetration, as in masturbation, since it’s a moment when we are uninhibited, alone and can give free rein to self-pleasure.
In the case of women, double penetration can be vagina-anus, and, in the case of men, we talk about pegging (penetration by women to men with a toy or with fingers) and masturbation, either with fingers or with sex toys.
In group sex, this practice is usually associated with a threesome of two men and one woman (M-W-M). Although, curiously, there is the idea that, in threesomes, at some point, one of the participants will be left out of the erotic game.
Lubrication, coordination and good posture are some of the elements that will allow you to enjoy this experience. In addition to using protection and maintaining good communication.
It is also important to consider anal stimulation and genital massage as part of foreplay, which allows the body to be prepared and comfortable during the experience.
Do not forget that while double penetration happens, there is also room for kissing, caressing, pinching, enjoying this erotic game.
If you are determined to do it, be sure to talk, to express your desires, limits, expectations and listen, attentively, to each other’s needs and concerns.
Communication and mutual respect are key, because even if you have given your consent, you can change your mind at any time. You should never feel pressured to do something that is not comfortable or pleasurable for you.
One of the myths about double penetration is that this practice can change your sexual orientation, whether you are a man or a woman, when the truth is that it does not determine who you are as a person; doing it does not make you a pervert, nor is it an indicator of sexual trauma or deviance.
If you want to explore this practice in a safe and comfortable way, toys are an option that you can buy in a sex store, where you will find a variety of designs for double penetration. Choose not so much by price, but by quality and that they are suitable for your personal needs.
It should be noted that as long as the people involved are of legal age, with capacity of judgment and it is done in a consensual way, double penetration can be an intense and rewarding sexual experience for those who want to explore other forms of pleasure.
Do not hesitate to seek professional advice in case you have any concerns or additional information and to make your fantasies and desires come true with safety and consent to enjoy your sexuality in an exciting, satisfying, but, above all, #sinrecato way.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
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