Many couples, in their wish list, have the idea of having the wedding of their dreams. Hence, for the dream not to turn into a nightmare, it is necessary to think about a budget, design a savings plan and get advice from professionals who have experience in planning weddings.
To establish that budget there are a series of elements such as the place, the number of guests and the time you plan to get married, among others, so that you can organize a simple wedding or a pompous wedding. Remember that less is more and expensive is not always synonymous with good taste.
The venue you choose will tell you whether your wedding will be simple or high budget. The options vary, ranging from an estate to a romantic beach, or you can do it in the privacy of your home or in an event hall.
The number of guests should be established from the beginning so as not to offend family or friends. Remember that the higher the number of guests, the higher the costs of food, drinks, venue, etc.
Food and beverage represent a significant expense because it is the identity of the wedding. The options vary according to tastes and also based on the time of the wedding; you can opt for breakfast, lunch or dinner and limit the liquor to a toast or drinks service for all the guests.
A good choice of photographer and videographer guarantees a good memory that the couple will have of their wedding, thanks to the experience and professionalism of the team that gets hired.
Nowadays, event planners have become true “angels” who, in addition to providing a service, help organize the wedding and save the bride and groom time and reduce stress.
Now let’s talk about figures for a simple wedding. In Colombia, the value ranges between 10 and 15 million pesos. With an approximate guest list of 50 people, which depends on the tastes of the bride and groom (place, food, drinks, music, decoration, etc.).
This is how we decided to talk #sinrecato with three couples in Barranquilla, who gave us details of how much they invested in their wedding.
Amparo and Miguel: “I don’t regret anything; the wedding is only one”.
After 13 years living together, in November 2024, Amparo and Miguel decided to unite their lives before the eyes of God and their family.
“My wedding was simple, 40 guests. We got married civilly and had a Christian ceremony as well. We did it in our apartment and only invited exclusively my husband’s and my closest family.”
How much was your budget?
“I thought I would spend a million (hehehe), because I supposedly wouldn’t do anything,” Amparo comments, jocularly.
Her wedding cost 15 million. It was a dinner and a toast. There was no orchestra, no live music.
Do you have any regrets?
“I don’t regret anything. The wedding is a one-time event. It’s a special and beautiful day and we managed to do it on our budget.”
A piece of advice for future spouses:
“They should not spend so much and do something measured. Because, although it happens only once, you have to think about the day after. There are couples who invest more than 100 million in a wedding, and I believe that with that money they can cover the down payment of an apartment.”
Diana and Daniel: “I regret not accepting the photo and video provider that the event planner told me about”.
Diana and Daniel have been married for 7 years, and this beautiful love story has already borne fruit; with their 2 children, a boy and a princess who complement their home. A family devoted to the Virgin Mary.
“I was very stressed at the beginning because I wanted to do everything and that’s not possible. So, I sought help and got a wedding planner who I loved. The only thing is that this is a business after all, and they always look for the most expensive providers.”
How much was your budget?
“The budget was 50 million initially and, in the end, we spent almost 100 million, 97 to be more exact.
It was an unforgettable wedding, as Diana tells. 120 guests, only 6 people missing. “I had everything and more than I dreamed of. I shared with my family and friends such a special moment for us”.
Do you have any regrets?
“Yes, but not related to the expense. I regret the fact that because I was stressed so that everything would go well, I feel that I didn’t enjoy that night as it should have been.”
“I also regret not choosing the photo and video provider that the planner told me about. I chose the cheapest one and nothing turned out the way I wanted it to. So much so that the guy disappeared and there are no files,” she said with a chuckle.
Photos and videos are very important, after all, they are the only things that remain as a memento.
A piece of advice for future spouses:
“Do not regret anything, get married as you want, expensive or economical, but do it.”
Álvaro and Luciana: “Our marriage has been the best investment in my life”.
After 4 years of happy marriage, this couple will continue to remember their wedding as the best day of their lives. Today their love is complemented by the arrival of their longed prince who will surely bring more joy and blessings to this beautiful pair.
How much was your budget?
“We had a budget of 10 million, which later became 30 million (dresses, hall, church, rings, family logistics, extra decoration, drinks). The wedding was by the Catholic Church and the reception was in an event hall. There were 90 guests. My family is quite large and there are still many who don’t talk to us because we didn’t invite them,” commented Álvaro, jokingly.
Do you regret anything?
Not at all, I would do it again. In fact, I want another one. It has been the best investment in my life. I remember those moments and I am filled with joy, knowing that it was the most important day of my sentimental life and of my existence and I got to share it with the woman I love.
“Remember that you are about to take a big step in your lives and deserve a dream event. I got married to be happier than I was while being alone, and that is the true meaning of complementing our lives with the one we love.”
A wedding beyond the party is the union and commitment of two people who voluntarily decide to share their lives, joys, sorrows, in health, in sickness, in gray days and sunny days until the last breath of their existence to love each other #sinrecato.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
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