Some couples want to find that magical sexual position that guarantees they will always reach climax. The good news is that it is possible, the bad news is that you will not always feel the same, because it also depends on other physical and psychological factors that could change everything.
However, science confirms that the best sexual position that makes a difference in your sexual encounters must go hand in hand with understanding your needs and clearly asking your partner for what you want and desire.
The truth is that some positions are better than others. If what you are looking for is greater intimacy or connection with your partner, or to try something new, or to find comfort and pleasure that allows you to have #uninhibited experiences, here are a few options:
Face to face: according to urologist and pelvic surgeon Rena Malik, a study found that, when it comes to increasing pleasure for women, there are two effective positions: face to face with the woman on top and sitting face to face.
Malik says, “These positions help heterosexual couples find a better angle that helps increase pleasure for both partners, but mainly for women, who often experience something called the ‘orgasm gap,’ which refers to the fact that they tend to have fewer orgasms than their male partners”.
The missionary position: it’s a classic, and although it’s not the most creative of positions, it’s one of the best ones when you want not only physical pleasure but also to build emotional intimacy with your partner.
This position allows for eye contact, so you can communicate and stay focused on feeling rather than thinking about whether you are doing it right or wrong. Experts say that the most important thing is to discover what you like and what works best for you as a couple. It’s also important to experiment and not give up after the first attempt. Remember that practice makes perfect.
Doggy style: among its benefits is G-spot stimulation. It’s one of the most popular sexual positions and involves one person kneeling with their hands on the floor or bed and their hips raised, while the other penetrates them from behind.
It provides deep and intense penetration and is perfect for breaking out of your routine.
Cowgirl: in this position, the woman “rides” on top of her man and takes control with her hip and pelvic movements, while the man has his hands and mouth free to touch and taste her.
There is a modification of cowgirl that is the reverse, she just turns her body to show another angle.
Spoon: this position is for a slower and more comfortable encounter. This posture is similar to the pose that many couples use to sleep. Simply put, the two are on their sides and facing the same direction, and the person behind sexually stimulates their partner or penetrates them.
It’s a comfortable and relaxed way to have sex. This position allows for a slower pace and full-body contact. It’s also the perfect opportunity to whisper sweet nothings or dirty talk in your partner’s ear.
On the edge of the bed: or on a table or other surface, there are no limits. In this position, one of the two has control, supports both partners, and provides deeper penetration.
One of the two sits on the edge of the bed or table and uses their legs to pull the other closer, while the person standing penetrates. This position provides an intense connection.
Bonus tip: “belly press” is more than a sexual position; it is a technique of applying pressure to the lower abdomen, between the vulva and the navel, during penetration.
The idea is to stimulate the G-spot from both sides, from the inside with the penis or a toy and from the outside by applying pressure with the hand.
Press just above the pubic bone while being penetrated vaginally or ask your partner to do it while penetrating you. The pressure should be gentle and gradual.
You can do it with two fingers, with your palm, or with the back of your hand. Ideally, you shouldn’t press directly on the navel because it’s too high up.
Don’t press literally as if it was a button because it’s quite uncomfortable.
If you’re curious to try this technique with your partner, you should agree on it and talk about it so that you can heat things up before putting it into practice.
Sexual life changes, evolves, develops, and matures over the years. If you are fortunate enough to have a stable partner, it’s important to know that sex, although isn’t the most important thing in a relationship, does help to improve connection and trust, and it’s a wonderful way to show interest and attraction to your partner on a daily basis.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
