I’ve always said, “less is more,” and that applies to EVERYTHING. However, every rule has its exception, and when it comes to sex, ANYTHING goes as long as both parties consent. Here, it’s not less but more that applies to feel more pleasure.
Some people find the conventional unattractive, which is why there are different levels of satisfaction. The important thing is to talk about it and express it in order to reach agreements and be on the same page.
So today, without further ado, I’m going to talk about certain details that may seem small, and even go unnoticed, when in reality they have much more power than we think:
Moaning: although women are more auditory and olfactory and men are more visual, in general, all the senses are more sensitive when we are aroused, and therefore more open to all kinds of stimuli.
Moaning is one of the many ways of responding to pleasure, so there is nothing more pleasurable than listening to it and enjoying it.
Pushing lingerie aside: sometimes, it’s much sexier and more stimulating to the eye not to remove your underwear completely, but to push it aside a little, for example, pushing aside your thong, leaving your bra or clothes on during foreplay or even during penetration.
Kisses on the back: the skin is the largest erogenous zone on the body, and the back is a very sensitive area. Gently touching and kissing it is an opportunity that should not be missed.
Kisses on the nipples: although they have always been underrated, men’s nipples are a fairly sensitive area, as they have the same tissue as breasts, only in a less developed version.
But don’t underestimate them; kissing, licking, and touching them is a strong trigger of pleasure for many men.
Petting: this is a sexual practice involving intimate physical contact with clothes on, but without penetration. It involves kissing, caressing, and touching erogenous zones with the aim of getting aroused.
Plus: it’s a safe way to explore sexuality and strengthen intimacy, because there’s no risk of pregnancy or STIs (sexually transmitted infections) or STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).
Despacito: also known as slow sex. Its name clearly indicates what it is, but it doesn’t mean that intercourse is in slow motion.
It’s a way to enjoy yourself without rushing or distractions, a way to reconnect and look into each other’s eyes, without constantly checking the clock.
Foot fetishists: getting sexually aroused by looking at, touching, kissing, smelling, licking, and fantasizing about women’s feet is a fairly common but very secret fetish.
Foot play can be used as a prelude to other sexual practices or to reach climax without the need for other stimuli.
The missionary position: a classic. In this position, one person is on top and the other is lying on their back with their legs open.
There are no limits, because your hands are free to touch and you can look at each other face to face while enjoying skin-to-skin contact.
Spitting: when the level of kinkiness, arousal, and trust is high, it’s okay to do it. We’ve said it before: it’s all a matter of taste, and if it’s a source of pleasure and satisfaction for both of you, then everything is perfect.
This behavior is known as salophilia, and it involves obtaining pleasure through saliva, sweat, and even semen.
These small but significant details maximize any sexual encounter with your partner. Do not underestimate the moment or the circumstances, and dare to enjoy your sexuality #sinrecato.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
