Although for some sexuality is something full of taboos, for others it represents a moment in which desire can be expressed more freely. This has been made possible by technology through the internet and the usage of apps, which show that social dynamics have evolved in many areas.
Sexual trends are varied and there are endless possibilities, but beware, this doesn’t mean that they’re for everyone; each person understands what they’re comfortable or not with, what meets their standards and, of course, everyone has a special and unique way of connecting with others physically or emotionally.
Experts confirm that in 2025, relationships are moving toward more inclusive and personalized forms of intimacy, known as flexible relationships and extramarital relationships.
Renowned psychologist and sexologist Flavia Dos Santos explains that there is an openness in non-monogamous relationships:
“We are living in an era where extramarital affairs are accepted. From the consultations I have attended, I must say that it’s interesting to see how couples in this type of relationship have the ability to listen to each other, come to understand how to maintain the relationship, maintain respect, and work on their self-esteem to accept that both partners’ desires can be satisfied”, confirms the sexologist.
Dos Santos points out that today’s couples want to have new experiences in their interpersonal relationships because there are more and more alternatives.
“Couples are now seeing the possibility of having other experiences because the model of trying-to commit-for-life is no longer the only option. The point is that couples are open to the possibility of not feeling trapped in a single relationship model”, she said.
Sexual pleasure had focused on what men felt and on satisfying each and every one of their needs, but this has changed, and today importance is also given to female pleasure and connecting with their sexual and emotional needs in a healthy way.
“Now, I see a very interesting development where women no longer feel they need male approval to be able to experience other ways of relating to others; I even see many of them rejecting men who are still stuck in the old model of relationships. All this is due to a newfound autonomy, where women feel comfortable being alone and having a sexuality where they don’t feel invalidated by a man”, Dos Santos concludes.
Today, technology has influenced new ways of relating through social media, dating apps, and online dating, where singles, married people, or people in relationships seek new experiences with polyamorous people, open couples, swingers, and singles who aren’t looking for commitment.
In 2009, the website Gleeden was launched in France and it now has 12 million users worldwide and has established itself as the leading extramarital and non-monogamous dating site designed for women.
This site is present throughout Latin America with approximately 2.5 million Latin American users who are looking for romance or simply to meet other people.
This website allows female users to have extramarital affairs:
“Contrary to popular belief, these types of encounters increase desire between partners, boost self-esteem, and strengthen trust in the relationship”, said Silvia Rubíes, director of marketing and communications for Latin America at the Gleeden platform.
Whatever the reason, the most important thing is that both parties agree to change the rules of their relationship and allow third parties to become part of their dynamic.
It’s important that you don’t agree to do this to please the other person, but because you really want to do it. If you reach certain agreements as a couple, it’s best to stick to them so that trust isn’t lost and instead serves as a tool to keep passion and love stronger than ever.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
