The body speaks and expresses itself. When we’re sad, we show it through tears; when we engage in physical activity, through sweat; and when we’re very aroused, we get wet, I mean, we lubricate.
Body fluids such as sweat, saliva, urine, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk, among others, are part of our normal lives. And the thing is that, in addition to fulfilling biological functions, when these fluids become noticeable whether through contact, smell, taste, or exchange with others, they can turn us on and even become a fetish.
This is why, during moments of pleasure or sexual intensity, some people find these fluids erotic.
However, it isn’t as simple as saying “I like saliva or sweat”, it’s about how the brain connects with the sensations that arise when we come into contact with them.
The attraction to bodily fluids can vary in intensity from person to person, as some may simply feel curiosity, which is a secondary element that adds spice to sexual practices. However, there are cases where bodily fluids can be the central component of a person’s sexuality.
According to Spanish psychologist and sexologist Arola Poch, there are bodily fluids that are culturally considered dirty, and this can lead some people to feel ashamed or misunderstood for being attracted to them:
“We must continue to keep in mind that the diversity of sexual preferences is much broader than it has traditionally been recognized for. The key to evaluating any practice is not whether it’s common or uncommon, but rather aspects such as consent, well-being, and the safety of the people involved.”
Intimacy and trust are other factors that trigger these fetishes. In this case, when something is considered “dirty” or forbidden, it becomes arousing. Additionally, other aspects such as texture, temperature, smell, or appearance play a role.
Arousal generally goes beyond the physical part: it’s connected to emotions and what it represents for each person. That’s why there are many fetishes related to bodily fluids:
Salophilia: This is a fairly popular fetish and more common than we think. It refers to arousal from sweat, saliva, or semen.
How does it manifest? For example, when you like how your partner smells after working out, or when kissing gets intense and that exchange of saliva turns you on, among other things.
Urophilia: This is arousal from urine. Its most popular form is “golden showers,” which involves intentionally urinating on another person’s body.
Arousal here is linked to the extreme intimacy shared with another person and the thrill of the forbidden.
Dacryphilia: This is arousal from seeing someone else cry, and even from crying oneself. It’s also known as dacrylagnia.
This fetish is quite rare and has various connections. In some cases, sadness itself is eroticized, or simply the act of comforting the person.
Vaginal fluid: Although I couldn’t find a specific name for this fetish, there are people who are aroused by vaginal fluids following an orgasm.
The arousal stems from its texture, its scent, and what it represents.
Lactophilia: This is an intense fetish for breast milk. Lactophiles are drawn both to breast milk itself and to women who are breastfeeding.
Some are content to buy and consume the prized milk, while others feel the need to be breastfed (adult babies).
For those who want to share these #sinrecato games with a partner, it’s important to keep three factors in mind: communication, mutual consent, and safety.
Communication is crucial when engaging in any experience. You should discuss what’s going to happen beforehand, not just do it because one of you thought of it on the spot, because the element of surprise isn’t pleasant during a sexual encounter.
Consent is essential. It’s important for both parties to know what’s going to happen and to feel comfortable throughout the experience, and if that’s not the case, it’s best to end the encounter.
Additionally, if this isn’t your regular partner, keep in mind that semen, vaginal fluids, and blood can cause STIs and/or STDs when they come into contact with mucous membranes or open wounds. Protection and hygiene are especially important here.
In the end, it’s natural for sexual intercourse to involve sweat, saliva, semen, and vaginal fluids, hence expecting to smell like lavender or jasmine while being intimate is unrealistic. Keep in mind that there’s no need to sexualize these fluids, but we should accept them #sinrecato as they are in order to have an unforgettable time.
Traducción del español: Catalina Oviedo Brugés
